Emotional Healing For Christian Moms-Unhealed Trauma, Identity, Prayer, People Pleasing, Spirit

Ep 81 From Wounds to Wisdom My Guest Spotlight on Seek First CEO with Heather Shriver Burns

I'm honored to call Heather friend.

She is a gift and I pray you enjoy our conversation and glean what Holy Spirit has for you in it.

We go deep into our personal experiences with inner healing and confronting our past traumas, oh, and while running businesses, being a wife, mom, etc etc

Only God.

I loved our time together and what God does with two people seeking His heart.

Blessings,

Mir

 

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Ep 80. I Don't Like My Husband, Now What? How To Overcome Negative Feelings That Feel So Real

Ever catch yourself thinking, “I don’t even like my husband right now” and feel instant guilt or confusion? Wondering what’s underneath those feelings and what God wants to do with them? You’re not alone—and this episode is for you.

 

In this episode, I share a deeply personal story from my own marriage and walk you through how emotional triggers, past wounds, and unhealed trauma can distort the way we see our husbands—and even ourselves. I also unpack a recent conversation I had with a private client who was brave enough to admit what many women feel but don’t say. You'll hear what it looks like to lean in instead of escape, process your pain with God, and give Him room to fight for your marriage.

 

Listen in to learn how to process those raw, unfiltered emotions with God, stop letting your feelings run the show, and begin seeing your husband—and your marriage—through a healed heart and God's eyes.

 

"Your feelings may be loud, but they don’t have the final say—God does." ~Miranda Wendler

 

Top Takeaways

• Feeling like you don’t like your husband doesn’t mean something is wrong with you—it means something deeper needs healing.
• Escapism, bitterness, and emotional shutdowns often signal past trauma that hasn’t been addressed.
• There is power in being honest with God—He’s not afraid of your truth, and He wants to heal it.
• Your healing begins when you stop letting your feelings lead and start letting God in.
• Sometimes, your greatest marital breakthrough is hiding behind your deepest pain.
  
  

What You Will Learn

• How to discern whether “I don’t like him” is about your husband or deeper heart wounds.
• The connection between father wounds and your current view of your spouse.
• Why emotional honesty (even the messy kind) is essential to healing.
• Practical ways to stop self-sabotaging your marriage and start healing your heart.
• What it means to let God fill the emotional gaps your husband can’t meet.
• How to develop a vision for your marriage and start praying with purpose.
  
  

Let's Connect

• 💬 Need support in your healing journey? Explore private coaching with Miranda at mirandawendler.com/coaching
• 💻 Want to take the next step in your emotional and spiritual breakthrough? Book a clarity call today to see if we’re a good fit: mirandawendler.com/coaching
• ✨ Share this episode with a friend who’s struggling in her marriage—it may be the hope she’s been praying for.
• ⭐️ Rate & Review the podcast to help us reach more Christian women who need healing and freedom.
  
  

Your feelings are valid, but they don’t have the final word. God does. If you’re willing to lean in, He can bring healing to places you thought were too far gone. Let Him rewrite your story—one surrendered moment at a time. 💛

 

Ep 79. 3 Questions to Help You Cultivate a Healthy Lifestyle

One of my pillars here at Recalibrating Hearts is to offer and share on Natural Solutions.

There are many reasons for that, one being it is a total passion of mine to live the life of wellness and walk in wholeness.

You can find me in the natural health aisle of my fave natural health store checking ingredients, new products, testing it all out, all the things anyway...I digress...

God wants us to experience life and life abundantly and its easier to do that when I am thinking clearly because I am giving my body proper fuel.

In this episode I ask you to consider:

What do I not like in my current situation/lifestyle?

What do I want to stop doing?

What do I want to create in my life?

Here is your personal link to your door to a healthy fresh new start I mention!!

I know!! 

It's SO exciting!!!!

Praying for you,

Miranda

Ep 78. 5 Things I've Learned About God That May Surprise You

I have to share with you my heart on this.

It's my experience, keep that in mind.

After 20 years of pursuing God, healing, learning from Holy Spirit....I mean.....there is nothing better than life with HIM.

Do you think you need to clean up before seeking God out?

Does God have a sense of humor?

Does He allow discomfort?

These topics and more I cover in this powerful episode.

Let me introduce you to a heavenly Father that I know.

He loves you so.

Miranda

I created an audio course where you have me as your coach walking you through and a workbook at your fingertips for you to dig into your heart and find the treasure that's waiting to be discovered!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🌈💎🕊

Ep 77. 3 Questions to Jumpstart Healing Your Identity

Who are you REALLY?

Do you know beloved?

Before you can impact the world, you need to know WHO you are and WHOSE you are.

Let me help you.

I want you to have powerful questions at your fingertips.

God, who do you say that I am?

In this episode I give you an even deeper coaching question.

What does Psalm 139 say about me?

What do I love and celebrate about myself?

You can do this love, you can heal.

Freedom is worth it.

Your kids/generations are depending on you.

You are powerful.

I am here for you.

Blessings, 

Miranda

Get coaching here.

Buy my audio course with workbook for $97 HERE!!

Ep 76. 3 Questions to Start the Forgiveness Process

This isn't easy beloved. 

We choose are hard.

But.

God has made A WAY FOR YOU AND I TO WALK IN FREEDOM!!

Today I talk about are you even ready to forgive?  How to prep for that.

Who do you need to forgive?

What closure do you need to be able to let go.

Ahhhhhh.

I told you. 

This ain't easy.

Let's get free.

Love you,

Mir

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Looking to connect with God and Hear From Holy Spirit? Here's my AUDIO course with workbook!!

Ep 75. 3 Questions to Jumpstart Your Healing After Trauma

I'm back after a pause.

I have got to listen to my own advice and rest when my heart says to rest. 

I want you to have coaching questions at your fingertips, I want to equip you to expand your self-awareness tools.

Let's do this loves!!

In this treasure of an episode I share a powerful tool with you: timeline of your life.

3 questions I cover: 

What lies am I believing?

Are they true?

What is the Truth?

Of course I go deeper with each one.

Want to go even DEEPER? Get my course HERE!!

 

 

Ep 74. 3 Choices My Coaching Clients Make to Walk From Brokenness to Freedom

You get INSIDER INFO here on what my private coaching clients are doing in their walk out to freedom and wholeness!!

You can take any of these choices and start today to make a difference in your tomorrow.

I am sharing my link with you here. Only apply if you are serious about BREAKTHROUGH FREEDOM and you are READY TO WORK ON HEALING.

Bless you on your journey to wholeness.

Love, 

Mir

Ep73 5 Ways to Raise Children Who Love God Minisode

Passing on some wisdom on how we cultivate the hearts of our children and normalize heaven and kingdom realities in our every day life.

As parents, our rooftops are our children's PLATFORMS.  Amen!!

My kindle ebook on amazon is here!!

Devotional we love.

Ep 72 Healing Fatherlessness On Your Way to Wholeness with Author and Speaker Giji Mischel Dennard

Guys.

One of the most important pieces on your healing and wholeness journey is hearing from God and seeing Him for who He REALLY is.

Holy Spirit help us, heal us, and transform us!!!

I believe Giji has a gift and calling as a vessel to release the Father's Love over God's children everywhere she goes. 

Giji Dennard is a speaker, author and CEO of Well Fed Resources by Giji Mischel
Dennard. Through motivational speaking, publications, and online courses, Giji
offer products and services to help you achieve what she calls 360 degree
WELLness – in spirit, soul, body, and business.

Just some take aways for me were:

His voice as our Father is SO important for our wholeness

The power of belief that kept her hope alive of being reunited with her Father 

Primary lack of trust is why people remain wounded--aahhhhhh.

Connect with Giji HERE!

Get her book Hungry for Wholeness NOW.

Healing and Peace over you,

Miranda